Pentecost 16                                                                                       September 16, 2007

 

“Following Jesus Costs __________”

Luke 14:25-33

 

            25 Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters – yes, even his own life – he cannot be my disciple.  27 And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.

            28 Suppose one of you wants to build a tower.  Will he not first sit down and estimate the cost to see if he has enough money to complete it?  29 For if he lays the foundation and is not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule him, 30 saying, ‘This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.’”

            31 “Or suppose a king is about to go to war against another king.  Will he not first sit down and consider whether he is able, with ten thousand men, to oppose the one coming against him with twenty thousand?  32 If he is not able, he will send a delegation while the other is still a long way off and will ask for terms of peace.  33 In the same way, any of you who does not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple.”

 

You may have noticed that the sermon theme for today has a blank in it.  It’s the first time in five-plus years of preaching that has happened to me.  How do you fill in the blank?  One way is like this: “Following Jesus costs…nothing.  Free forgiveness, with no strings attached, coming directly from God’s heart to your doorstep in Christ.  To follow Jesus costs nothing.

 

But there is another way to fill in the blank.  Following Jesus costs…everything.  God does not put up with divided loyalties.  He wants you to put him first in every moment, with every thought and in every situation.  And it has always been that way.  When God gave man his first breath in Eden, he expected that Adam and Eve would have undivided loyalty to him.  And they did…for a time.  But then they were tempted to be loyal to themselves.  They ripped the fruit out of the tree because they were no longer loyal only to God.  They were loyal to their own desires.

 

Centuries later, when God gave His Ten Commandments, the command to hold an undivided loyalty for God was exactly the same.  When God repeated this command, he did not mess around.  He did not beat around the bush.  He did not sugarcoat anything.  The first commandment is clear and blunt.  “You shall have no other gods.”  When the LORD thundered those words from Mt. Sinai long ago, the people got the point.  God wants nothing to get in the way between you and Him.

 

When our Lord Jesus walked the earth, God still had not changed his mind one inch.  He still commanded, “You shall have no other gods.”  Jesus knew how dangerous divided loyalty was.  To shake the people loose from lukewarm love that broke the first commandment, Jesus had strong, even shocking, words for them.  Listen to what Jesus says about how to deal with divided  loyalties in Luke 14.  (read text)

 

Jesus lays it on the table that being a follower of his is not a cushy job but instead a demanding occupation.  As you listen to those verses, do you think he’s trying to talk you out of it?  Do you think he’s trying to get you to quit being a Christian?  Imagine that you’re pondering taking a new position, and your boss-to-be begins listing all the new responsibilities you’ll have, as well as all the hardships you’ll face and the fires you’ll need to douse.  Then he tells you, “Now if you take this new job, understand that your life will no longer be your own.  You are expected to set everything else aside, for this job will cost you everything.”  Usually talk like that makes you think, “Do I really want this job?”

 

With words like these, though, Jesus isn’t trying to make you think twice about whether or not you want to be his follower.  As people who already trust in him as their Savior, he is assuming that you want to.  What he is saying is that he doesn’t want to lose you.  He doesn’t want anything to get in the way between you and him.  To follow Jesus costs everything.  Having heard Jesus’ words, let’s ask ourselves the question…

 

How can I be a Christian if that costs everything?

 

Let’s go back the crowd following Jesus and analyze the people who heard these words for the first time.  There was a large crowd following Jesus; many were apparently following for the wrong reasons.  Perhaps they were curious and wanted to see a miracle show.  Perhaps they wanted to be on the winning team when Jesus overrode the Romans.  Perhaps there was some other personal benefit they had in mind.  Jesus knew that many of them were following him with a shallow commitment.  He knew that when the going would get tough, their allegiance to Him would grow cold.  Half-hearted commitment simply would not cut the mustard.  So he told them these tough words to get them to think deeply about their loyalties.  To be a Christian means you are loyal to Christ before being loyal to anything else.

 

That brings us to this difficult part about hating family members.  It seems to be absolutely opposite of God’s clear command, “Love your neighbor, even your enemies.”  And it is the opposite.  Hate is the opposite of love.  Maybe it will help you understand this difficult phrase if you can see that what Jesus says here is nothing more than another way to clarify the First Commandment, “You shall have no other gods.”  Jesus is talking about loyalty.  You love your family because they are your family, and that is what God wants when he says to love others deeply.  But when being loyal to your family causes you to pull away from Jesus, then a good thing is becoming a bad thing. 

 

When the blatantly sinful family member begins to influence you more than you are influencing them, it is time to change your loyalty.  When the subtly sinful family member gets you to sleep in Sunday morning more than you get them to wake up and worship, it is time to change your loyalty.  In that scenario, it’s not that you stop loving your relative, because that is what God wants.  And it’s not that you stop praying for your relative to know God’s truth and be saved through Christ – for God wants that too.  However, as you love them, at the same time you hate them for pulling on you to separate from Jesus.  You simply will not allow separation from Jesus to happen.  You might reach a point where you need to tell your loved one, “I don’t want to choose between you and my Savior.  I’d love for you to listen to Him and have both of you.  But if you continue to refuse, I’m loyal to him first, and not to you.” 

 

And that doesn’t apply only to other people.  You are to even hate the thing you love the most - your very own life - when you pull yourself away from Christ.  In summary, what Jesus says is, “Be loyal to me at all times!”

 

Hopefully that is an adequate explanation for a difficult verse…but even if it is an adequate explanation that doesn’t make following it any easier.  To bring this point home even further, Jesus applies two stories about counting the cost before you take the plunge.  Everybody knows you don’t build a five million dollar home with five dollars to your name.  That would be stupid.  Everybody knows you don’t fight a war when you are outnumbered 2 to 1.  That would be suicide.  It is important to count the cost before you get started. 

 

The teaching that following Jesus costs everything is difficult because it requires us to count the cost.  That teaching requires me to do things I don’t like to do.  I don’t like to say, “No!”  I don’t like to confront a difficult situation.  I don’t like to love Jesus with all my heart…

 

How can half-hearted, vile people like us be acceptable by a holy God who accepts nothing less than perfection?  When we are confronted with our divided loyalties, it never feels better to hear that following Jesus costs NOTHING.  Jesus came to seek and to save divided hearts like ours, hearts that were apt to stray.  We are saved not by what we have done, but by what He has done.  Jesus was tortured to death here so that we could live torture-free in heaven. 

 

Yet never forget that following Jesus also costs…EVERYTHING.  Do not let anything get in the way between you and your Savior.  Do not place your loyalties anywhere other than with Him.  Hate even your own heart and mind if you begin to say, “I am my own boss!”

 

Following Jesus costs nothing.  Following Jesus costs everything.  Our Savior has made both of them possible.  Amen.